Margaret Cho, i LUV YOU..

well..not love LUV. Like I'm not a dyke or anything folks! Speaking of..are you gay?! Check this funny video out of her stand up routine on gays or being gay or what the hell is she anyway?! Like she lives with a guy and has a girl friend ok? oh yeh he's herhusband! But don't get me wrong folks. i really d don't give a shit!
Why do i luv her? Well everything is fair game to her,like most good comedians and comediennes..they find the humor in everything even a href="">. Embrace our inner ape folks!

What you don't know about parasites can KILL YOU and YOR PET..

Honestly folks, if you think letting your cats walk on your counter tops in the kitchen after just getitng out of the litter box is ok and then you are cutting whatever say cheese, on the butcher block counter, to eat, well all I got to say is UGH!
Yeh, my dog and one of my cats has worms and my other cat has mites in her ears1 EW! how gross is that?! And it's not because i suck as a pet owner, ok!? They just are pains in the butts, literally! chemical carap sucks so embracing my higher 'Green' initiatve to rid my home and pets of them before i just kick their asses! (jk).
GAve my dog tuna fish mixed with garlic salt and apple cidar vinegar and her dog food for starters,2 days ago. i think it helped. it bettter have worked. omg! Did you know you can catch this crap?! Why i posted about it here on my health,home and garden and wahtever my friggin head thinks and want s to write about ,ok? blog..REad more hereon other natural or organic folk remedies.

Alone, again Naturally

Remember that song? Well, I do an I hated it then and still do! Another tear jerker was 'The DAy the music Died' -Don McLean or better yet 'All By Myself!" don't want to be..all by myself, anymore! (revamped version by Celine Dion, ha!) Anyway..I am alone, partly by choice as I am choosey as to whom I befriend and spend time with.. Of late I am feeling the magnitude of what that means and is and it kind of scares and saddens me. Granted I am not unique in my experience as many other people live alone ansd some prefer or love it! in fact, you can live alone but still enjoy a great social life and have a terrific network of dear friends. Not my case though. I don't call or reach out as I just feel 'in the way' as they have their own family,friends and lives and appear diinterested in me and wanting to know me better or be around me.

Technically, mind you, I am not physically alone as I live with 3 hairy beasts! yes..4 cats and a dog but..when it comes to human beings, there I would say, I would be lacking. I really don't have anyone I could truly say that I could depend on or who would be there for me in a pinch. Yes I have my elderly mom and and an old boyfriend. By that I mean, an "ex", although come to think of it, he is old too!! He lurks in the shadows of my life and visits a couple of times a week, usually to grubs off me both for food and money,as he doesn't use a budget and is perpetually broke,ugh! He will say he will be coming over but will go to sleep instead and not call so..I wouldn't exactly call him a rock of dependability.

I am pre or perimenepausal as they say as just got my 'friend' again after months of not getting it as I thought I was threw with that and I was fine about it. Now I am bleeding alot and depressive due to hormones. Getting better though but perhaps is why I felt sad and introspective all of a sudden.

I have neighbors who saying "hi" is a stretch, let alone asking for anything so for the most part, I don't bother to speak to them. Many people pass by as I live near a park in a farm community upstate in NY but, they stare at me and look in my windows and go on their merry way.

How bout you? Are you alone? lonely? What do you do to cope with your feelings?

Another great article on being alone can be found here on 'Open SAlon', a blog site for writers. Check it out! AND AS ALWAYS,'here's to your health!'

Brain Injury and YOU!

my article post on 'Open Salon', a writer's blog network, on brain injury, 'Brain Injury & You!'was one of the editor's picks, today! I was happy about this recognition of my writing and was glad I could share my own personal experience with brain injury as a survivor to raise awareness.

Perhaps, this small gift today was what I needed as my life has been less than ok lately to be honest here if i may! I guess I could use some good news. Why? Well..I am going through a bit of sleep deprivation lately as two of my 4 cats have been fighting at night, keeping me up. Then my other cat regardless gets me up at 6AM sharp by crying from the next room and if I don't get up, he begins to scratch the furniture like a bratty kid! he knows better guys. I honestly think he does it intentionally. Anyway, I yell both at night and in he morning and in the day these days at these animals and my dog is the 'Peaace Pal' of the house so she gets up barking when she hears the hissing as she has a zero tolerance for b.s. and fighting. I am thinking of leaving them all here and booking a flight to some where. Only one problem, I'm broke! This makes me think of a post for another day on my pet blog'Animals LARGE and small'"What to do when YOUR PETS take over your house!". When i figure it out I'll let you know. Til then I have one of my cats, 'the offender', in the back room for the second time today! He is the new cat who chases my 'shy' but hissy one into another room when she hisses at him and then they fight.

All these different personalities living under one roof is beginning to grate on my nerves. More to share another day. Don't worry guys. i'll be ok. i'm strong. Show me some love. You know what to do! (hint) drop,comment,email,trade links,give me somehing to review,or buy something! thanks!

How to Dispose of Pet Waste and not Alienate your Neighbors..

Want to know the right way to get rid of pet waste? I even mean for your cat as well as dogs as we always hear people complaining about owners not picking up after their dogs! Read more

Entrecard wanted to charge a fee to reject ad

Am glad it's members complained. Read more

Weatherization on your home pays now even more..

photo from Planet Thoughts,blog,where I found this link on the stimulus info.
thanks to Obama's stimulus plan that credits owners' smart choices and home,energy-saving improvements. Read more

RUSH..The new face of the Republican Party?!

'Harley' from 'Daisy,the Curly Cat',blog..Maybe he should be the new face of the GOP!

Well..I am glad Rush Limbaugh is feeling better after recovering from his personal problems and addiction but..we do not need anyone at this critical time..in our country's history, spreading negative ideas like wishing ill on Obama's policies. He is such a polarizing figure. His shock jock mentality makes for great radio banter but not for running a party. I think the Republicans are happy to shift the focus for a while now that Jindal made a fool of himself, sounding like an infomercial, after Obama's address. We need to join together now,despite our political affiliation and stop our partisanship ways if not for ourselves,our country! Many are really hurting,partly because they never saved for a rainy day, but then again, how many of us are guilty of the same thing? Many of us are living pay check to pay check. I know I am even if it is just a social security disability one.

Pay cuts and salary hike freeze in Congress? Is what I heard..Is it true?!

Nash cartoon.

Wonder how Dems ended up with an Ass and the GOP, a pacaderm?! Read more here

Throw 'Melissa' a bone..

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Yes..Melissa from 'The bachelor',has extended her 15 minutes of fame after being dumped on tv..by joining 'Dancing with the stars'..She can join Hef's ex from 'The Girls next door'. Melissa atleast has a few moves while dancing is not one of Blondie's talents. She may stick around though,as she looks good.

What are the odds?1

Two shows,strikingly similar have been offered up to the public to view this season. Firstly, the now defunct, 'My own Worst Enemy' with movie actor Christian Slater and now 'Doll house' with the chick from 'Buffy the Vampire Slayer' acclaim, Eliza Dushku. Is Hollywood and it's writers running out of ideas?!

Both series are about operatives who volunteered to have their identities wiped clean so that they can take on other identities and finish 'missions' for the first one, the government, and the second series,some agency. While I like Christian Slater, although he was arrested in the past for perversion, I kind of like the second one better. She is great eye candy too. What about you?! What do you think?

The cast shares some insight on the series. Sample tv series review. Eliza does Maxim..