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Showing posts with label writing. Show all posts
Wednesday, February 14, 2018
When seeing a therapist is not enough if have mental illness
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'here's to your health!'
I live with anxiety, depression, fear and anger.I also have chronic pain from a spinal injury.
Thankfully I have a dog as a companion. However she is the only one I can trust. It does get lonely. Meeting and being around others is hard as most of them are happier than me.
I can't relate to them and visa versa. Lately I have had to push myself to so things as am sad. I was in two car accidents too and have a head injury.
This causes memory and concentration problems too. On the up side, I am self sufficient. Mostly I listen to Christian music as it is calming.
I also do mindfulness coloring, play chess online, watch TV once in awhile, have plants,write,attend support groups on phone, walk my dog, care for her, pray,eat tastey meals, as just got pizza tonight.
The trick is to do something if down, not waddle in self pity, to feel better. As per Recovery Inc., support group, 'move a muscle and change a thought', 'resoluteness of the muscles overcomes the self defeatist babble of the brain'.
This group is based on book Mental Health Through Mental Will Training written by Dr. Abraham Low, for his patients. Another group is Emotions Anonymous, based on 12 steps.
Say powerless over emotions. Faith based teaching for symptoms is helpful too. Example: replace fear with faith, sadness with 'joy comes in the morning', 'don't let the sun go down on your anger', 'be anxious for nothing.'.
DBT skills such as mindfulness, distress tolerance with meditation, taking a vacation if overstressed like going to sleep.
Cognitive skills is another. Replace negative insecure frightened thoughts that cause negative emotions, with secure positive ones.
If use some or all of these daily, you will feel better. It is a choice. Through action, even if don't want to, you feel better. Do the thing you hate or fear and gain the most confidence, comfort comes by bearing discomfort, showing can do it.
We are sensitive so we Need to be less so and not let the outside environs effect our inner. People can be rude. We Need to let them go or are tossed about like fish in a tide.
It is important to protect yourself. Try to get with supportive, kind people. Don't reveal yourself too soon until know is safe. Some will never understand or even try
Like to call us crazy, stupid. Mean. Distance self.Stigma is out there. Why I don't work regular job. Write for money and do vending sometimes. Something.
I would like to get together with others for lunch, coffee in Capital area, NY so not so alone. Get back to me if interested. Also comment here if can relate to topic. Thanks.
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Sunday, July 29, 2012
Rain
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Rain
While we need it,
We don't need it every day,
But, it's been pouring daily, from where I sit,
Watching the drops of water fall and trees sway,
With the wind blowing their branches and leaves falling,
Instead of for rain, I pray for a sunny day,
Listening to birds sing,
Feeling the warmth of the sun,
Not the coolness of the clouds in the sky,
Then I can get something done,
Outside, tidying up, I'll try,
For now the streets are soaked with rain,
buckets of the stuff have filled my flower pots,
It has now become a pain,
As sun too is needed for fruit,crops,trees and forget me nots,
So now instead of a rain dance,
I will wish for a sunny sky,
As I watch the animals prance,
From my window by and by,
Yes, it's high time for some sun,
I long for it's warmth on my face,
and the summer fun,
It's vibrant glow on this place,
That not is wet and dull,
The streets resemble a ghost town,
Empty and the sounds are at a lull,
No activity can be seen in this now sleepy town,
The rain seems to have washed away the people as well,
As watered the ground and soil,
The air is heavy with a damp smell,
Soon, men will toil,
Under the hot sun's rays,
On roofs,fields,streets,
They will seem as if in a daze,
While others complain of the heat,
And wish that it would rain.
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Monday, July 21, 2008
So you think you can...
Write?! Well by all means do then as Wordpress,Squidoo,Ezines,Hubpages,Article89,Forums,Blogs,Yahoo Answers.. are but a few places waiting for your knowledge and fine use of the English language now!! We appreciate your clever way of writing and many businesses do too and are in fact paying people to blog for them as they see the merit and money in it and they simply don't have the time or know how to do it theselves! It is far easier to go to a site like ezines and get an article to and to a health web page or company, on say health,alternative, peppermint oil, as a cure for bad breath and also as a component for facials and even in bug spray! It beats paying someone on a regular basis to write for you!. Yahoo Answers has people who write and give their advice on many topics to vistor's questions on anything from child care to how to fix a tire! Their wisdom costs often little or nothing and is indeed helpful. I know one person who had problems with her cat and she wrote to a woman online for advice. She received invaluable help for but $6 in an email! Here's to your health.
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